1.lit. to eat meat from one's bowl, then put down one's chopsticks and scold one's mother (idiom)2.fig. to complain despite being privileged3.to be ungrateful for what one has been given
to be the first to worry about affairs of state, and the last to enjoy oneself (quotation from the essay On Yueyang Tower 岳阳楼记[yuè yáng lóu jì] by Song writer Fan Zhongyan 范仲淹[fàn zhòng yān])